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Why Teachers Don’t Deserve a Summer “Break”

June 23, 2016 By Lindsay Gee

I was recently having a conversation with a “gentleman” about the teaching profession and he felt very strongly that teachers were “spoiled by all the time off they get” and that “summer break for teachers is a joke”. What with all the evenings and weekends off throughout the year, all the holidays off and the time off for Christmas and Spring Break…why the heck do they also get the summer off?

He rambled on for a good five minutes at the ridiculousness that is summer break for our teachers and was adamant that they should be working all summer. They should put the time in  “like real hard-working folks who actually earn their money”.

At this point, I practiced some very deep breathing. Some very, very deep breathing. Some very, very, VERY deep breathing and I began to untangle the words that had got lodged in my throat. It was time to enlighten this imbicile about what it actually takes to be a teacher.

My mother is a teacher and I have nothing but mad respect for her profession. My children are now school-aged and I see the impact good teachers have on them and the progress they’ve made this year. In my opinion, teaching is one of the most important professions out there and I, for one, applaud and bow down to every single teacher I have met.

I grew up watching my Mom bring her marking home with her and mark all evening or all weekend. I watched her go into work on the weekend to lesson plan, change desks around and decorate her room to keep the kids excited and inspired to learn. I watched my Mom agonize over “her kids” when they struggled and I watched her cry for them when that same struggling child succeeded. I watched her volunteer to coach, to tutor, to lead field trips and to take time away from her own family so other kids could have opportunities they wouldn’t have if not for my Mom.

I asked the judgmental a**hole I was talking to if he had actually been in a classroom lately. I asked if he had school-aged kids and if he volunteered at his school to watch the amazingness that is teaching. His answer was “No but…”, at which point I cut him off.

I asked if he’d chaperoned field trips that leave parents exhausted, depleted and wondering how the heck teachers manage to do that every single day. His answer was “No but…”, so I cut him off again and enlightened him because, I have.

I’ve been on many field trips this year and every time I leave I ask my kids’ teachers “HOW do you do that every day??!”. Where does their energy come from and how the heck do you manage to keep them all in line, respectful and having fun? How do you do this all day when after a 3-hour field trip I feel the need to go home, crack open the wine and have a 4-hour nap to recover?!

But I wasn’t done standing up for our teachers just yet. At this point, I decided that the fine fellow I was speaking with should also understand the impact teachers have on our children. So I carried on…

20160622_142103Personally, I’ve watched my son thrive this year at school and I give full credit to his grade two teacher for the progress he has made. Not only does she “get” my child’s sense of humor, she encourages it. She was the one who recommended we get him to a counselor to help him with his anxiety. She is the one he talks about and tells me the jokes she’s taught him. She’s the one who celebrated his first goal in hockey and the one he said was the proudest and excited for him (aside from us, his parents). She is the one who has taught him to read and who has taught him how to add and subtract, to share, to be kind and to be an amazing student. His teacher. Not me.

20160623_084845 My little girl is in Kindergarten this year and once again, I’m in awe of her teacher. The energy required to wrangle 20 5-year olds is insane and every day her teacher shows up, acts silly and teaches my child the fundamentals of academia and the fundamentals of being a kind, caring, sharing person. The time and energy her Kindie teacher shows every single day boggle my mind. My child can read now because of her teacher. She can count to 100, knows her seasons, understands basic math and science concepts…and jeez…did I mention that she can READ?! She has become a leader and she is confident and strong because her teacher has seen her gifts and fostered those traits.

I couldn’t stress enough the importance of respecting and applauding teachers. They sacrifice a lot, the give even more and they help mold our children’s future. They give and they give and they give and at the end of the year, they’re freakin’ tired.

So, do they deserve a summer break? No…they don’t.

They deserve a Summer Holiday. Breaks are too short and don’t encourage a lot of rest. But holidays…where we encourage our teachers to rest, recharge and take the time to appreciate the greatness they are? Yeah…they deserve a freakin’ holiday, a long 2-month holiday.

But, kind Sir, did you know that many teachers have to actually find work in the summer? Why? Because most teachers DON’T GET PAID over the summer. So, this break you are so vehemently against is no break at all! They deserve restful time off, ya wanker, a real holiday. A holiday to re-energize and refuel so they’re ready to give it their all again in September. Because they do. They give it their all every day that have access to my child.

So, to all the teachers out there making a difference. You have my respect and all of my support to rest, recharge and HOLIDAY. I hope you can take these two months to holiday and run with it (or laze in a hammock, whatever is best for you to fill your tank). No break for you…you deserve a two-month, glorious, happy, restful, lazy dazy holiday.

Filed Under: Healthy Family

Absentee Mother on Father’s Day

June 13, 2016 By Lindsay Gee

Father’s Day is this weekend and once again I find myself absent from my family on Father’s Day. Some of the Hot Mamas and I are heading to Whistler this weekend to tackle Tough Mudder for the fourth, yes FOURTH, year in a row. And for some reason, our Mudder weekend often falls on Father’s Day.

This doesn’t usually set off bells, whistles and alarms at our house, but I often feel bad that I’m not here to celebrate the day with my kids’ very spectacular father. He always suggests we “do” Father’s Day the following weekend and it works out just fine. However, my kids are very excited this year to celebrate their Daddy and I know they’ll want to give their homemade gifts to him on the day of Father’s Day. I find as they get older it is getting harder and harder to “bump” celebrations to accommodate our schedules. Jeez…all this growing up!

If you know my family at all, you’ll know we’re an active sort. We like to get out and move our bodies as a family. Hikes, walks, workouts, sports, we really do try to get the kids moving as much as possible. So, usually any type of celebration is done by moving our bodies. But, it’s difficult to organize family activities when I’m going to be absent. “Hey HONEY! I organized this awesome hike for you and the kids to do on your special day” probably wouldn’t be the best gift. Although it might make me giggle, I’m a nicer person than that. [Read more…] about Absentee Mother on Father’s Day

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When Do We Lose Our Brave?

June 6, 2016 By Lindsay Gee

Last week I went to my children’s “Variety Show” at their elementary school. Going to the show I thought I would simply see something of a spring concert where all the kids sang with their classmates. You know…the songs they’ve been belting out in your kitchen for the last 2 months?! Typical school concert stuff.

What I didn’t expect to see was dance performances, singing, beat-boxing, solo music performances, even the sweetest ventriloquist in the history of ventriloquists. When the first number began and we saw a young gal sing “Fight Song” (with the cutest little lisp) while three of her friends danced in front of what had to be at least 100 people, my first thought was “she must be so nervous, I couldn’t do that!”.

As I watched performance after performance a question bounced around my head: When do we lose our brave? I turned to one of the Moms next to me and said “Would you ever do that?” to which she laughed and said “No friggin’ way!”. So…when do we lose our brave? [Read more…] about When Do We Lose Our Brave?

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Oh, But You Are Good Enough, Baby Boy

June 2, 2016 By Lindsay Gee

We’ve called him the Gentle Giant since he was very small. A sensitive fella from the beginning of his life, he suffered from colic and cried for hours on end during the first 3 months of his life. If you called my son a sensitive child you would absolutely be right.

For years I’ve fretted and worried about raising such a sensitive child. How will he cope with sadness? How will he cope with bullies? Will he stand up for himself? Will he stand up for others? Will his emotions and sensitivities hold him back from exploring? Just how badly is he going to get run over in this all-too-often cruel world?

My job as his mother is to love and honour the person he is. However, with so many ideas of “how boys should act”, I often tried to push him into doing things that other boys like to do. “Go run! Go play! Go rough-house”, I’d say. “Go get dirty! Roll around! Just relax and don’t worry”. The problem is, those expectations or instructions made my little man worry more because that just isn’t the person he is. And that…my lovely readers, is the place I’ve gone wrong. [Read more…] about Oh, But You Are Good Enough, Baby Boy

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Demand the ball, Baby Girl!

May 20, 2016 By Lindsay Gee

I’m one of those lucky Mamas who gets to walk her kids to school every morning and pick them up every afternoon. I know I am fortunate to have this gift, so I don’t ever take it for granted. The interesting part of being able to do this little task is that I get to watch the playground dynamics of our kids from Kindergarten up to Grade 5 (the “big kids!”).

Yesterday, as we entered our schoolyard I saw three boys playing basketball and one girl trying to play basketball. Why was she just trying? Good question.

No, it wasn’t because she was clumsy. No, it wasn’t because she wasn’t dressed to play. And no, it wasn’t because she wasn’t shouting for the ball. It was because the boys weren’t passing the ball to her. No matter how many times I heard her say “Pass the ball to me! I’m here! Pass it to me! I’M HERE!! Pass me the ball!!!”. The boys didn’t.

She finally gave up. She grabbed her backpack and walked away. Her shoulders slumped and her energy completely changed. She was defeated by three little boys on the playground that wouldn’t pass her the ball.

I wanted to run up to her and yell “DEMAND THE BALL, BABY GIRL! GET BACK OUT THERE AND DEMAND THAT FRIGGIN’ BALL!!!”. But, I’m not her Mama and it wasn’t my place.

Don’t get me wrong, most of the boys in our school are very sweet, caring boys. It was just a dynamic that I saw and I had the thought “Oh wow…it starts here, does it?!”. While we battle mansplaining and still, in 2016, battle for equal pay, I realized male/female inclusion, or exclusion if you will, starts on the playground. Our little girls are getting defeated in elementary school.

No, not every day. And yes, I realize what I saw was innocent play and the boys were probably buddies just trying to have fun. But, isn’t that where “the boys club” starts? I wonder how many more times that little girl will be out there trying to join in and will end up walking away. I wonder if and when she’ll just give up trying to join. Or, I wonder when the boys will actually look up to see her towering over them (she was taller than them all by a foot) and see the opportunity for success because of her skills.

As a woman who had a job in a predominantly male environment for years, I know what it’s like to try to break into the Boys Club, to be “one of the guys”, to fit in just so I could do my job. I know what it’s like to be on the sidelines while the fellas joke and have fun. I know what it’s like to yell for inclusion. And it’s possible. You just have to persevere.

And yeah…that sucks. I know it. We still have a long road to go when it comes to inclusion, but I think we can teach our girls to demand it at an early age. We can teach our girls to stand tall and not walk away in elementary school. We can teach our girls to be strong when they want something, to demand inclusion when they want to participate. If we can give our girls the strength to stand on the foundation of perseverance, maybe, just maybe we’ll progress on female inclusion into the boys club just a little quicker. Maybe we’ll disassemble the Boys Club.

As I watched this little girl walk away, backpack on, shoulders slumped, kicking rocks I thought, oh baby girl, do I have some advice for you:

Don’t ever walk away. Stand there. Brace yourself. DEMAND THE BALL, BABY GIRL.

Keep demanding the ball until one of those players pays attention. Demand the ball until one of those little boys looks up, sees the opportunity and throws you the ball. One of them will. They may do it begrudgingly at first, but keep demanding. Demand the ball.

There may be days when you don’t feel like playing and hey, that’s totally fine. YOU get to choose that. Just walk by, high five them and find your friends.

But, baby girl, on the days when you choose to play…don’t walk away again. DEMAND THE BALL. Then, go show ‘em what you’re made of!

Filed Under: Healthy Family

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